FOR YOUR MARRIAGE TO SURVIVE, YOU MUST URGENTLY DEAL WITH THESE THREE FOXES:
Marriage was meant to be enjoyed and not to be endured. The coming together of a man and his wife whose combined efforts were supposed to be for progress,exponential growth,prosperity,fruitfulness,success,unprecedented upliftment,love unlimited,etc. But when foxes are allowed to fester,it's essense, purpose and supposed accomplishments becomes illusive.
THESE ARE THE FOXES:
*BITTERNESS,
*RESENTMENT AND
*UNFORGIVINNESS.
IF YOU ALLOW THEM,THESE ARE WHAT THEY ARE CAPABLE OF:
*They Poisons once blissful marriage.
*They eats your very marriage root.
*Kills love overtime.
*Destroys intimacy times with your spouse.
*Makes you change your communication tones with your spouse by being harsh and violent.
*Blinds your eyes to every good deed done by your spouse.
*Disarmed your act of appreciation.
*They create many fresh wounds in your heart.
OFFENSES MUST COME
Since both of you have differences,it is likely and very common that you will step on each other from time to time.But the mastery in the handling of such cases will be your victory. When issue comes up, always ask yourself this one single question, which way can I handle this matter so I can get the best outcome? When you spend sometime to ponder on this, chances are you will likely delay taking the emotional route,stay action on acting rashly or responding foolishly.
WISDOM AND MATURITY
Wisdom is always the right application of knowledge. Putting the positive and the right things you have learnt and known thrughout your lives journey into proper application. If there's a way your marriage can be destroyed, there are more ways it can be saved. A response during provocation is not always the best, note,when provoked, delay response and action. Do not return fire for fire, always bring an extinguisher against the fire, sprinkle sweetness in the midst of bitter taste.If you go by thses rule you will always be the winner.
FORGIVENNESS
Since you can not do without offending each other, then forgivenness is the answer. Forgivenness is difficult to a natural man/woman, that is why you need GRACE OF FORGIVENNESS to forgive and forget.Sincere forgivenness of your spouse will give Love a solid foundation to thrive continually in your marriage.
Invite Jesus in. (He is grace personified) The one who forgives and forget.He will come and help you.
He cares.
If you have felt offended in a very sick union, there's need for repair. Receive grace to pick up your phone now and initiate the process of reconciliation by calling your spouse. Do it now!
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